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Judy Helm Wright, of Missoula, Montana has become “The Bully Advocate.” As an author, keynote speaker and family educator, she has seen the damage done when bullying occurs.

Her blog http://www.cyberbullyinghelp.com is filled with information and a free report for parents. The goal of the blog is to:

1. Empower the bully to gain empathy and gain new ways of communication
2. Empower the victim or target to gain assertiveness skills and how to set boundaries.
3. Empower the bystander or witness to speak up or find help.
4. Empower the group, school, family or community to adopt a no-bully, respect for all policy.

Judy Helm Wright | judyhwright
Are you ready to be empowered and to step up to your bright future? Take the self awareness quiz at http://www.EmpowermentWithJudy.com You will be glad you did.
1 year ago

Are You Afraid and Frustrated?

Jul 8th 2010 at 10:20 AM

Are You Afraid and Frustrated?

If you are having difficulty turning problems into opportunities, you may be discouraged. You may have a need to build your self esteem in order to overcome fear, doubts and frustrations that are impacting the life you deserve to live. Having courage does not mean that you are free of fear, despair, doubt, frustration or discouragement.It does mean that we are able to meet life's challenges and move forward.

Courage is Movement Forward

Any time we take action and move toward a goal, we set a process in place that will overcome negative thoughts and experiences. The Universe rewards those who know what they want and take immediate action. Sometimes, the most courageous thing we can do is to say; "This is a negative place in my life and I want to change my direction and not remain stuck here." Making a decision to overcome fear or to just walk through the doubt is frequently the catapult to success in many areas of life

Encourage Yourself To Take First Step

By making a decision to overcome what may seem overwhelming, you will be moving forward as opposed to stagnation and paralysis. Many people are stuck in miserable situations because they are waiting for someone or something outside of themselves to decide what to do or to save them from their misery. The courage to turn a problem into a challenge is best met internally. Others may be vested in keeping you stuck. If you change and move forward it may disrupt their safety net. It is not their problem, it is yours.

You may be looking at problems in a restricted and narrow framework. You may be basing your fear and doubt on old beliefs that no longer serve you. You may be replaying old family tapes in your head that keep you from stepping out into the future with courage and daring.Get unstuck in life by making a decision to move forward

Peel Away Old Belief Systems

By getting to the root cause of our fears and doubts we can examine them in the light and reframe them for the future. This will enable us to function in a more satisfying and rewarding manner. We become what we are through our decisions, all of which require courage.

Lack of courage is often express in the decision not to make a decision.

Questions To Assist You In Overcoming Fear, Doubt and Frustration

  • How do you encourage yourself when you are afraid?
  • Do you recognize that you and you alone own the problem?
  • Do you have old family beliefs that are holding you back?
  • Are you sometimes suffer from paralysis of perfection?
  • What decision will you make today that will move you forward from a stuck place?

You are invited to claim a free e-course on overcoming shyness and building self esteem and courage at http://www.ConfidenceClues.com You will be so glad you did. Thanks for joining our community of caring parents, family members,coaches, teachers and mentors who want to help raise a generation of responsible adults who respect others.

Judy H. Wright http://www.ArtichokePress.com You have permission to reprint this article in your blog, ezine or offline magazine as long as you keep the content and contact information intact. Thank You.

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