People are not pushed or pulled

motivation:

But are motivated from within themselves. What a person does is the outcome of what that individual thinks and feels.
You have unlimited potential to make yourself whatever you choose. Your only real limitations are those which you place on yourself.
You develop the confidence to reach for higher and more meaningful goals that are increasingly
attainable and worth while to you. You discover that the solution to most problems are within yourself and do not depend upon outside circumstances.
Therefore, if you are to change your circumstances,
you must first change yourself!
Be yourself -And succeed.