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Perfectionism- Success or Failure

Sep 29th 2010 at 10:16 AM

Perfectionism can create a lot of troubles because it decreases your output. It's beneficial to acquire the caliber of what you are working on to a best level. But on the far side any additional deed performed may be spent may be unessential and this simply the wastage of time nothing else except this.

Major Causes of Perfectionism:

One reason of perfectionism is bringing up. If you maturated with your parents then it might prevail on yourself if your parents were like just perfect. So you acquire this by force of your parents not because of your choice .It is just like to be perfect or nothing less than perfect is acceptable, in these circumstances you might be a perfectionist. It happens due to setting one specific level of doing things beyond that you are not acceptable. For example, some parents force their children to choose engineering discipline rather than to other disciplines because they consider engineering an optimum level of education even though the children are interested in other sides so this also happen just because of perfectionism.

Other ground of perfectionism is the motive for favorable reception from others. If you are a perfectionist, you might endeavor for perfection to affect other people. Whenever you do lower than perfect, you are timid that you will be disapproved by others. Man always learns from his mistakes it’s really difficult to become a perfect at all the time. To deflect perfectionism, you must live with doing a mistake is all right. It is satisfactory for the final outcome to be imperfect. Do hard for good, not for perfect.

This is not a pet rule that you can only achieve your targets if you are perfect you can do all that without being a perfect. Always exercise completing tasks to a prime degree that is effective, but not perfect. For instance, you are reading a book and you do as much you understand so it will bother you if you try o memorize the whole material just because of this, you want to apply the material. So getting knowledge at optimum level is necessary rather to be a perfect. Perfectionism may lead you toward success at sometimes but it’s not true for all the times. Think about it.

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Sep 30th 2010 at 3:35 AM by TimRR
Sep 29th 2010 at 2:59 PM by philjansen
Something to think about, thank you for sharing. - God Bless! -

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