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Men And Women: Platonic - Is That Possible?

Sep 12th 2011 at 7:09 AM

I say yes, and some men and women might say otherwise. As I said in my previous post titled "The Difference Between Men And Women In Relationships - You're A Friend To Me!"

Speaking on this subject there will be varying opinions, and it should be backed up with in depth research. Hold on, wait a minute. We're all humans and why can't we just sit down and converse with one another. I know why, it's because our emotions always gets in the way. How am I doing so far?

That word--EMOTIONS is very powerful. When it comes to men and women having a platonic friendship (relationship), I really think it is possible. Factor in if you can keep the emotions in check, this is very hard for anyone to do. Considering that over half of the population of men and women gets very emotional about any problem or situation that gets in the path of life. It's like they can't get passed it and therefore they need someone to comfort them in their time of need, and if that someone is a person of the opposite sex and you're just platonic friends. Things can happen pretty quick. It happens all the time, and you will get all caught up in that emotional thing and then you got a much worser problem because you have changed the status of your friendship into another form of relationship. That is a different story now.

Now when you find yourself in an emotional state, there are other ways of handling it. How you handle your situation when in a platonic friendship with a man or woman depends on your emotions and how strong your feelings are. Remember if you keep them in check, unexpected things will not occur that you might live to regret. I have seen many cases where emotions have gotten in the way and the unexpected happened.

My solution is The Bible. It has never failed me and never will. I believe in it, and it comforts me.

My next topic will be "Do Men And Women Communicate Differently."

I'm sure you will want to return and hear my thoughts on my next fascinating subject. I look forward to hearing your thoughts and comments on this article.

Talk soon.

Terri Pattio

 

 

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Dec 18th 2011 at 9:44 AM by Siamak
Very thoughtful of you Terri! I believe in help which has been brought to us by God himself and it can never fail us. All we have to do is to believe in goodness and never do what will bring you regretfulness
   
Sep 12th 2011 at 11:21 AM by TerriLPattioMLMmento
Right you are Arthur on not taking things personally, having a sincere genuine concern instead of thinking about what's in it for me. I always strive to help everybody no matter what their gender is. Speaking of your book, is it on your website? I would like to get it.
   
Sep 12th 2011 at 7:52 AM by iCoach
Well Terri there is no doubt that emotions play a huge part in our communicating effectively. I teach this all the time. It is easy when we are not emotionally vested in expressing ourselves and discussing an issue or solving a problem. There are many ways to be emotionally detached and for me it is always remembering to be compassionate and loving and to not take anything personally. There is a lot more I could say, which I do say in my book, Quantum Shift into Greatness.
   

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