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Marriage counselling and its history

Apr 7th 2015 at 1:06 AM

A lot of people nowadays tend to visit a marriage counsellor who is the one and only specialist to figure out their problems. But what exactly does the marriage counseling mean? Some people consider it to be the procedure of counselling the couple of married people in order to find out the painful troubles in their relationship and to solve these problems in order to avoid their ruinous power in the future. Sometimes the marriage counselling is also called the family therapy.

The counselling of such type can have various terms. For example, the counselling that has a short term may last for one session or even for three sessions. In the same time the long term marriage counselling can last more than for twelve sessions. There were cases when the couple needed even more than twenty-four sessions in order to figure out the problems inside the family.

However, every rule has its own exception and when it goes about the marriage counselling the exception is a therapy, which is focused on the solution. Moreover, the counselling usually is about the current result on the spot in the office of the marriage consultant. That is why the emotions are the main goal of the expert, which will help him or her to find out the real reason of the misunderstandings.

The methods used while the marriage counselling can of course be different. Actually all these differences depend only on the experience and the way of working of the marriage counselor more than on the whole process. All the methods that will be used while the counselling will depend on what you real need. If the services conducted by the therapist are not enough to satisfy your needs than you should better address to the healthcare professional who will certainly solve all your problems.

Naturally, everything in this world has its own beginning. Talking about the marriage counselling, it has an origin far away in Germany from the early 1920s. As for the United States of America, the marriage counselling was conducted there in the late 1950s. And it was a special answer to the marriage counselling centers in Germany that really helped the vast majority of the couples to figure out all their troubles in marriage. The psychologists and counsellors have been dealing with the psychological problems of the individuals mostly in a medical framework. Nowadays they work to help their clients in psychoanalytical framework too.

No doubts that the institution of family is something that is not meant to be changed so the marriage counsellors work hard in order to help the couples not to divorce.

With the increasing level of divorces, the value of tight-knit families has risen but still you have to work hard in order to live happily in your marriage. All of us should remember that the life is a real work with its difficulties and if there is something wrong in your marriage, you should not ruin everything. The right solution is to find out the root of the problem and to address the marriage counselling company.


Jacob Taylor, an independent blogger and certified psychotherapist from Calgary, about marriage counselling and couple therapy programs offered by modern experts.

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