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Nov 11th 2010 at 12:34 PM

This morning I had a long but very creative conversation with my wife.
We talked about responsibilities for our actions and learning from mistakes or I would rather say failures. This is what we fear most to do, not talking about but making one and if it happens many would be willing to 'kill' to hide it or blame some else to escape responsibility. We are told that making mistakes is wrong, bad and it never ever should take place and also we were punished for making them. For such reasons and pressure most will never admit one. Fear, is our the biggest enemy.
Failure, like few wise people say is part of learning and success, so unavoidable. Nowadays, you can find great variety of books and lecturers related to positive thinking, law of attraction, taking responsibility of life in own hands and so on. And indeed, one can read and listen and read and never change; never find the right words which get to the point of once's mind to trigger understanding that for all our failures only we are responsible. This is not someone or something else, this is us who make mistakes and we fail. If we get to this point that we only are responsible for our failures, than it opens the door for us to learning from them. But how to get there? How to understand that Mr. Trouble ... continue reading here

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Feb 26th 2011 at 12:12 PM by igytomas
True :)
Feb 26th 2011 at 8:17 AM by Adelaidesmith
Tomas, I like the article. I often say when we are pointing and blaming others, we should take a look at all the other fingers pointing at us.

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