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Judy Helm Wright, of Missoula, Montana is a wise woman with a global message. As an author of over 20 books on Amazon, she writes about Responsibility, Respect & Resiliency.

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Life Isn't Fair - Are You Lucky or Unlucky?

Jul 8th 2010 at 11:13 AM

Ernest Hemingway once said: "The world breaks everyone. and afterward,many are strong in the broken places."

When we are going through adversity, it is not always possible to believe that everyone suffers loss and heartache. It feels and acts very personal when bad luck and rotten life experiences happen to good people.

Our first response is " Why Me? " We may question whether we did something to deserve this punishment or trouble. We may feel resentment for others who are not suffering and question why trouble did not choose them. We may even add up all the bad, selfish and dishonest things a certain friend or acquaintance has done and yet still has good health and a big bank account.

It's Not Fair

Life isn't fair. As a mother of six children I tried to hard at Christmas time to make the gifts come out even for everyone. No matter how many times I counted and then made lists and then recounted, on Christmas morning during the bedlam of presents, paper and toys, I would realize it hadn't been fair. Someone had gotten a watch worth twenty dollars and someone had gotten a bracelet worth three dollars. Some one had gotten the exact doll she wanted and someone else got the one that was in style last year.

We finally decided to recognize and joke that no matter what we did, it was never going to come out even. But the joy was that you knew that the chances were good that one day it would be your turn to get exactly what you wanted. We would often recite the battle cry of large families and pre-schools around the world; "You get what you get, and you don't throw a fit."

Luck or Life

Life is filled with luck and also filled with change and chance. As Ernest Hemingway said earlier, we all get broken in some way and it is the broken places that make us strong.

Bad Luck is described as unforeseen occurrence, happenstance and yet good luck is described as prosperity, wealth, windfall, success, advantage, profit and triumph, happiness and blessings. It is often from the luck that the opportunities for growth and development come to us. When we take the chance to grow through loss, grief and adversity, we will become stronger and more resilient. I know this is true, because I have experienced in my own life and the lives of countless friends and family.

Questions To Think About

  1. Do you consider yourself lucky or unlucky? Why?
  2. Have you ever said "That's not fair." Why?
  3. What do you think about when bad things happen to you?
  4. Can you look back in your life and recognize how a certain situation helped you to grow personally and spiritually?

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Dec 9th 2010 at 7:20 AM by jjbreunig3
I prefer to think of myself as being 'blessed' and that I'm blessed to be a 'blessing to others', which is a far great ideal than being lucky.

--Joe Breunig
   
Nov 9th 2010 at 7:11 AM by stephaniebeth
The only way to be fair with gift giving is to give out equal sums of money, but wheres the fun in that?
   
Sep 1st 2010 at 3:35 AM by jennysue19
Judy My life has turned around since I started practising the Law of Attraction. If you slouch around thinking 'I'm always unlucky and nothing good ever happens' you are liable to get more of the same. Turn that around and affirm every day 'I am happy, lucky, prosperous and attractive and the Universe is conspiring to give me exactly whatever I wish' Believe it. It works.
   

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