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1 year ago
Why People Fail
As most of you know, I joined The Leaders Role and wow what i am learning and the live Skype group is just so awesome. One of the owners of this great group came in and added this
Kris Hanks: please list one thing that comes to mind that is a CAUSE of Failure in our INDUSTRY?
Well, talking about team work - in about 10 minutes - 28 reasons were given - this was so fun to do and to see all the reasons. Kris then gave the group an assignment - pick 3 out of the 28 and write a blog or article.
I have gone thru the list and have picked 3 that I myself can relate with I first started online.
My first one was FEAR - Being a newbie to the net, you hear all kinds of stories and the bad experiences that people have had. I was so scared that I was going to hit the wrong button and wipe out everything on my computer - I think about this now and laugh to myself at all the times that I have hit the wrong button and have deleted what I just wrote - but you know what all those oops taught me - save, save, save.
The other fear I had was using my name and my picture. Well big mistake, think about it - wouldn't you rather do business with someone you can see and learn to trust, someone you know that is a real person and not someone with a name like lollipoplillie that has a picture of a peacock for their pic. I don't know about you but the first thing that came to my mind was - wonder who this really is, is it a real person - well that is when the lightbulb finally went on and for the last 3 years - you will see my name - google nancy radlinger sometimes and you will see that I got over being shy. This is called BRANDING and this work people - let people see that you are a real person, don't be shy.
The 2nd I picked is LACK OF SKILLS - well if you are like me when I first started - this was all GREEK to me - google, yahoo, email, URL, .jpg file, HTML, keywords, meta tags, and the list goes on and on. Well, like alot of people that I have met are in the same boat - what does a person do - well google has become one of my best friends - if I have a question, get stuck - just google it - you will be surprised how many others had the same issues and you can find your answers. As you start learning your way around the net and social sites - more and more opportuntities (seminars, webinars, ebooks) will pop up if you just keep searching. I have been so blessed with all the people that I have met on here and have friends all over the world. I have learned mostly alot by trial and error (and I mean alot lol) - but lessons came out of each one of them. If you are suffering from the lack of skills like I did then find a group that are willing to help you gain the skills you need, give you the support your need and be a friend when you need one. The Leaders Role (wink, wink)
My 3rd one that I picked was MIND SET/Staying Positive. This one was very hard for me as I just came out of a 25 year marriage and a negative-attitude based family. I do believe in the power of the Law of Attraction - negative attracts negative and positive attracts positive. So after my divorce, I had a decision to make either I was going to stop being negative - oh poor me, everything happens to me, you know the type. Well, I decided that I had been given a chance to turn things around and I chose to learn to stay positive, positive, positive. I have been so blessed over the last years and now I know that I am going to have my dreams come true - it's not the If this happens, my dreams will come true NOW it's when this happens, my dreams will come true. Yes, I do have bad days but you know I can always find a positive - you just have to look. Believe in yourself.
Success lies not in being the best, but in doing your best!
"There's a difference between interest and commitment.
When you're interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstance permit.
When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results."
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