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Michelle Williams | mwilliams
If You Could Learn One Thing ... Teach it to 100 People, All of You Go Out And Do It For 1 Hour A Day You Could Get Paid For 100 Man Hours A Day...hmmmm

Do You Know The Definition of WINNING?

Jul 1st 2010 at 6:38 PM

Do You Know The Definition of WINNING?

That is what I would like to ask you right now... 

If you don’t know the definition of “winning” how can you ever be a winner?

I would like to share a few of my ideals on how people win and help you find out subconsciously what “winning” means to you. After all, isn't that what winning is all about... what it means to you!

5 ways I think about winning are:
1) You Win When You Are Comfortable. This is the person who feels that sense of accomplishment.  His primary goal is to go through life as comfortably as possible. He doesn't function well under pressure. He really doesn't want to be pushed or challenged. They will always try to avoid conflict. Basically, they just want to go through life on cruise control.  Hanging out with their friends and having a good time!
Everything is designed to support their pursuit of comfort.

This would probably fit in the category of an employee.  Someone who would be more than happy to have a safe, stable, comfortable job.

If you challenge this type of person, you could really push a button and look out!

2: You Win by Being Liked:   This person’s primary goal in life is to be liked by others. They want to be popular, and seek acceptance from everyone. This type of person will do just about anything to reach that goal. They would rather be liked, than to be right or wrong.

A person like that in a leadership role in business will usually fail. They are not willing to make hard core decisions for fear of upseting someone. They will try to please everyone all the time.  They are motivated by being liked by others.

3: You Win By Being Right:  This person is usually an expert in a specified area like a doctor or lawyer. This kind of person usually wins by being right they don’t accept criticism and are close minded to new ideas.

They reach glass ceiling when it comes to relationships, money, and their career.  They will end relationships, because they can’t accept their short-comings.  They find it hard to move past them and achieve personal growth!!!  If you debate with this kind of person, you will never win.  They will always prove you wrong.

This person must always be right.

4: You Win By Winning:  This person is an achiever. Their primary focus is to win!
They are very competitive, and will do whatever it takes to win. They will not yield, and will always stay the course! This is a person who is constently pushing to have success.  Mark Twain said it best; "if you want to be successful, find out where the successful are heading and get their first"!

I would describe this person as a successful entrepreneurs and athletes. To win is their reward. However, some will compromise their integrity to "win".

This type of person doesn’t care if others like him or not.  He always welcomes challenge because that is what provides him with new opportunity to win!

This is the way I win... I win by winning. I am constantly evaluating and improving myself. I will do whatever it takes, (with integrity), to be the best. Period.!?

5: You Win By Losing. This person wins by being a victim. They want sympathy and declare within that it is not possible to win.

Living life always filled with problems because they don’t win unless they lose.  They create circumstances and excuses that help themselves win!  The negative mindset that “You can't teach me anything new..."I don’t have the money"...This is another pyramid schemes... "I think I will give it a try…”

When I was exposed to this, I took a long hard look at my life.  There are people who are not wealthy because they want to be comfortable. There are people as well, who are not healthy because they want to be comfortable. There are many people who are stuck in the same job because they want to be liked. As well, there are people who are "addicted" to struggle because they win by losing.

Most likely, if you are like me, you see a little of yourself in each of the 5 ways I think of when it comes to winning.  The most important  thing to remember about winning is that, winning is a continuous process.  It is over once you have won, and that now becomes an event!

As soon as you’ve “won”, the process starts all over again.  Now you call that a victory!!!

Once I was inspired by a new goal, my whole focus went back to “winning”.   This is where I am right now.  I don’t know where you are at this moment in your life, but I do know is tha  Entrepreneurs win by winning.  They do whatever it takes to fulfill that subconscious desire.

If your subconscious desire is to  “win”, and win big in networking or your home business, I am here to help!

If your desire is to win in Network Marketing, ask yourself why? Why do you really want to “win”?

If you REALLY want to “win” in this industry, and neerecognized that you’re not where you would like to be today thanks to an opportunity to achieve new goals.

You have complete power over what you choose of your future!   This could be your chance to  reinvent yourself, and the way you win.

If you’re TRULY ready to win in networking, I am here to help you!  The same  proven system that I currently use to generate a flow of qualified leads to my business on a consistent  basis!  I would like to offer you a step by step blueprint for FREE that will teach you how to "win" by "winning"!

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Dec 1st 2010 at 2:00 AM by kiwiscan
Michelle, nice article. The real winner is Greenwin!!! Check out my faceplate and find out :)
Aug 13th 2010 at 9:25 AM by philjansen
Thank you for a well informed article Michelle, I will check it out. God Bless - Phil Jansen - Who I am makes a difference - "Winners never quit and quitters never win" Ps. Can I request permission to post it to my self motivational blog. Thank you.
Aug 9th 2010 at 1:20 PM by bnmarika1214
thank you :)
Jul 28th 2010 at 7:20 PM by roosevans
Great article, Michelle! Consciously or subconsciously we all want to win, however we define "winning' as you so eloquently point out in your article. The key for success in online marketing is to come up with "win-win" solutions to the problem of making money on the Internet, which a lot of good Home Biz-Ops are doing today! Online marketing Itself is a "Winner" if people work together in creating wealth for all, as I see it.
Jul 11th 2010 at 7:19 AM by mwilliams
thanks for visiting! Faceplate is an awesome community...
Jul 8th 2010 at 11:07 PM by Prodoc
AWESOME article enjoyed it very much.

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