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Child Behavior Problems and Effective Parenting Tips

May 15th 2012 at 5:45 AM

Successful parenting involves basic knowledge combined with fundamental like for improving your parenting skills. This is one of the most challenging tasks of your life while taking up the role of parents.

Some parents often struggle with their children, who are around 2 – 3 years old. This is true and quite natural when it comes to parenting skills.

Your child is behaving in a way that they choose willingly. They choose the behavior to get something positive, or to avoid something negative. Before you implement any behavioral change strategy be sure that you have a solid idea about what it is the child wants.

Child behavior

How you want to influence your child’s behavior?

Behavior of a person is driven by emotion. It is to be noted that the behavior for any person of any age, is determined by their emotional state or condition. While small kids don’t have the ability to use logic, but they are emotionally active. Therefore, personal self talk with your child serves a major breakthrough in maintaining his or her emotional and psychological health. Parents need to have a positive relationship with their children including finding time to play and have the fun with them.

We are all busy in our lives, but no matter what, you need to make time for your children. Many parents fail to do this and as a result the children see them as strangers. Make a point that how busy you are, choosing to spend your time with your children will definitely have a positive emotional attachment with your children. Spend time with your kid that allows you to understand their motivations, or perhaps their likes or dislikes.

Understanding and talking with your child rather than talking at your child for positive result. It’s very important to remember that your child is complimented whenever you see that he or she has achieved certain levels of appreciation.

Parents should encourage their child through praise and celebration of accomplishments in every stage. In all probability, any abusing could turn the children against you and might ignore you totally. The crucial emotional bridge must be established with your child before trying to change their behavior.

Don’t forget that kids also grow and benefit from hearing what you appreciate about them. When you give compliments to your kids, make sure they are real and genuine for their good behavior. Compliments need to be earned before giving. This is something that your child needs to understand.

In other words, it’s more effective to tell your child what you do want the child to do. Always, try to understand your child’s emotions and listen to his opinions about anything. Further, complimenting the child can boost self-confidence in him/her.

Generally, children do want to be in control to feel safe. You will find that children have in common their extreme need to be in control of their surroundings, particularly their parents. In fact, the parents build walls in the form of limits for their children to neither think or act.

We all want to be the perfect parent, but there’s just no such thing. In order to be a successful parent, we need to learn from our own mistakes. Mistakes are how we learn, and if we don’t make mistakes we are not learning. But if we make mistakes without acknowledging them, we also fail to learn.

The idea of punishing a child for the mistake is simply a means to an end, in the eyes of the parent. However, in some cases the punishment to the child may not work out the way you wanted. Try to implement a punishment hoping your child will learn how to avoid the same mistake next time.

Though a child who is happy with an achievement may get love from parents, but may eventually experience low self-esteem. Similarly, a child who feels loved but is hesitant about his or her own abilities can also develop low self-esteem.

Think about how your child is motivated and try something new. Otherwise you’ll not only fail to accomplish the change that you are after, but you’ll strain your relationship with your child.

Successful parenting is achieved when a loving and caring parent is able to observe what is working, and modify what is not working for improving child behavior problems.

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May 16th 2012 at 4:12 AM by dollarlicious
Nice take, Joseph. I don't think that many people understand that children exercise free will just as much as adults, and that the exercise thereof can be quite detrimental, as they have not yet learned to separate emotion from reason. Good post.
   

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