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Reasons to Consider Seeking Divorce Mediation
Once you’ve decided to pursue a divorce, you may be overwhelmed by thoughts of what the process might be like: meetings with lawyers, waiting for court dates, putting up with delays, and ultimately not having a great deal of control over how or when the process plays out. Along the way, there will be bills from attorneys on both sides, compounding an already costly process.
It doesn’t have to be this way. With divorce mediation, you can avoid many of the hassles and frustrations of a court divorce. There are distinct advantages to using mediation to settle the dissolution of your marriage. For one thing, it can significantly speed up the process and lead to a much quicker finalization than taking the traditional route through the courts. A mediator has much greater flexibility than a judge: there are no court dates or times to adhere to, no operating hours between which you must be present, no set process you must follow. You will have more options in terms of where and when you meet; it is even possible to meet through video conferencing when both parties can’t be present at the same time.
A mediated divorce takes place with much greater confidentiality than a traditional one. You won’t have to stand in a courtroom full of strangers and reveal the details of your marriage, family life, or work situation. All of your meetings and documents are privileged, and you and the other party control the discussion and the ultimate outcome.
In a traditional divorce, each party is ultimately looking to “win” something from the other. Attorneys must strategize and argue in the interest of one party, whereas mediators are there to help both people communicate and work together effectively. This route is far less adversarial. The mediator gets to know your family, something a judge can rarely do. This approach can lead to a more stable ultimate outcome; if issues arise in the future, you can return to the mediator for assistance in working them out.
Mediation is also much easier on your children. It spares them of the experience of watching a protracted court battle play out between their parents, a process that can sometimes even necessitate that children take the stand or be interviewed by strangers so that a judge can make decisions about where and with whom they will live when the divorce is finalized. In mediation, you and the other party make all the decisions about your children based on what you feel is best for them.
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Paul advises people on divorce and family law matters. You can find his thoughts at Blogspot blog.
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