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5 Signs Your Relationship Is Not Able to Be Repaired
You and your spouse have been struggling for some time. You want to hang in there, but it seems as if nothing is going right. You ask yourself if your relationship is really over, is it irreparable, and if you’re sensing it is, it probably is. If you want proof beyond your hunches, consider these five signs.
If your relationship has become abusive, it is likely over. Abuse goes beyond physical harm, and if you and your spouse are constantly fighting and belittling each other, you might be beyond repair. Words hurt as much as hitting, and constant criticism, mocking and mental, emotional and of course physical abuse are all signs you need to move on.
Addiction is another mountain that might be too hard to climb. If you or your spouse is addicted to substances, spending money, gambling or pornography and/or sex, you might need to consider dissolving the relationship. Yes, your partner can get help, but if he or she is not serious about being well, the addiction is not going togo away.
One sure sign that your relationship is beyond repair is if one of you has emotionally checked out. What this means is there is no interest anymore in the partner, including being engaged in conversation, doing things together and sharing things with him or her. Do you eat in complete silence? Do you not really care how your partner’s day went? These are surefire signs you’re not engaged anymore.
Emotionally checking out also includes physically checking out and if your love life isn’t what it used to be, you might need to reconsider with whom you’re involved. Romance plays an important role in any relationship, and if you find that your sex life is non-existent, there’s a problem. This includes if you are no longer interested in having sex with your partner.
One reason your sex life might be on the fritz is because your partner is being unfaithful, and that is a surefire sign your relationship is not a healthy one. There’s no excuse for infidelity, and if you or your partner is unfaithful, and has been multiple times, don’t stay together. Clearly, you don’t really want to be with each other.
It’s hard to end a relationship, even an unhappy one. If you are unhappy, however, and you are seeing these five signs in your love life, seek out the advice of a divorce lawyer in San Diego to help you determine if everything really is beyond repair.
Paul advises people on divorce and family law matters. You can find his thoughts at divorce helping blog.
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